I have a confession to make: I am a chronic overthinker when it comes to my appearance.
For the longest time, I believed that to truly look “premium” or successful, you had to have it all completely figured out. You needed the tailored designer wardrobe, the flawless schedule, and a jewelry box filled with family heirlooms or ridiculously expensive solid gold pieces that you only take out for weddings.
Because of that, for most of my early twenties, I just didn’t wear jewelry. I felt like an impostor trying to pull it off. I’d tell myself, “I’m just a t-shirt and jeans girl,” or “I’ll buy the good stuff when I hit a major corporate milestone.” But last year, I started a new job where I had to lead client meetings. Suddenly, my casual everyday uniform felt a bit too casual. I remember standing in front of my mirror before my first big presentation, looking at my plain outfit, and feeling incredibly unfinished. The clothes were fine, but the look lacked identity. It lacked presence.
That night, a close friend noticed my pre-meeting anxiety and gave me a piece of advice that stuck with me: “You’re waiting for an occasion to look complete, but your everyday life is the occasion.” She handed me a tiny velvet pouch containing a minimalist 925 sterling silver chain she had bought from an online brand called Shriva Jewels.
I was skeptical. I’ve always had sensitive skin, and cheap fast-fashion metal gives me rashes within an hour. But she assured me it was premium, authentic 925 silver.
The next morning, I put it on. It was incredibly delicate—just a clean, subtle line of silver that caught the light whenever I moved.
It sounds silly to say a tiny piece of metal can change your mindset, but it did. When I sat across from the clients, gesturing with my hands, that subtle glint gave me a weird sense of grounding. I didn’t look like I was trying too hard. I just looked… intentional. Put together. Like a woman who pays attention to the details.
A few weeks later, feeling a bit braver, I went onto shriva.org myself. I wanted something with a bit more presence for an upcoming family dinner, but I wasn’t ready to drop a month’s rent on real diamonds. I ended up ordering one of their premium imitation rings.
When it arrived, I held my breath. We’ve all seen imitation jewelry that looks plastic-y or gaudy under sunlight. But this was different. The craftsmanship was so sharp, the metal finish so clean, that it felt heavy and luxurious. I wore it to the dinner, and three different relatives asked me which traditional jeweler I bought it from. I just smiled and kept the secret to myself.
What I love most about my pieces from Shriva Jewels isn’t just how they look; it’s how they make me feel. I don’t feel like I’m wearing a costume anymore. The pieces don’t overshadow me; they complement me.
I recently saw a quote on their page that said, “You are the masterpiece; we are the light.” It hit home because that’s exactly what good jewelry should do. It shouldn’t change who you are; it should just highlight the confidence that was already there, waiting to step into the room.
If you’re like me—waiting for the “perfect” grand budget or the “perfect” fancy event to start investing in yourself—don’t wait. Start with the small, everyday pieces that make you feel complete. Trust me, it changes the way you walk into a room.
